Counselling Approach

Counselling Approach

Theoretical approaches which inform and guide my counselling practice include (but are not limited to):


Solution-Focused Brief Therapy  (SFBT)

SFBT is a short-term, goal oriented/solution-focused therapeutic approach.   Its effectiveness is well established and supported by a solid and ever-increasing body of research.   By focusing on the future rather than dwelling on the past and by identifying your unique strengths and resources, SFBT aims to build solutions rather than solve problems.   Changing your patterns of response to a problem by doing something different is fundamental to this approach.


Cognitive Behavior Therapy  (CBT)                    

CBT is a common type of talk therapy (psychotherapy).   It is used to treat a wide range of mental health disorders (eg. depression, anxiety), physical symptoms, emotional and relationship challenges.   It helps you become aware of inaccurate or negative thinking patterns/beliefs so you can view challenging situations more clearly and respond to them in more effective ways.   The basic concept of CBT is that focusing on changing the way you think (cognition) will change the way you act (behavior) and, ultimately, feel.


Emotionally Focused Therapy  (EFT)

Emotionally Focused Therapy is a short-term form of therapy that focuses on adult relationships and attachment/bonding.   The therapist and clients explore patterns in the relationship and take steps to create a more secure bond and develop more trust to move the relationship in a healthier, more positive direction.   EFT has been proven effective for distressed couples and families who are dealing with anger, fear, loss of trust, intimacy issues or a sense of betrayal in their relationship.   In addition to helping the distressed relationship, EFT can also help reduce individual symptoms of depression or trauma.    In EFT, clients learn new ways to listen and stay attuned to another's emotions and discover more productive ways to respond to emotional situations.


Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction  (MBSR)

Mindfulness means maintaining a moment-by-moment awareness of our thoughts, feelings, bodily sensations and surrounding environment.   Mindfulness also involves acceptance, meaning that we pay attention to our thoughts and feelings without judging them (without believing there's a 'right' or 'wrong' way to think or feel in a given moment).   When we practice mindfulness, our thoughts tune into what we're sensing in the present moment rather than rehashing the past or imagining the future.  

Research studies document the physical/mental health benefits of practising mindfulness:  immune system enhancement, increased relaxation and positive emotions, decreased rumination and negative emotions, increased self-insight and objectivity, and improved brain function in regions linked to learning, working memory, focus, concentration, attention and emotion regulation (less emotional reactivity).


Psychodynamic (Insight-Oriented) Therapy

We all find ourselves behaving at times in ways we don't fully undertand.  What we do not know or grasp about ourselves can cause us problems.   The less we are aware of our unconscious 'inner workings' (deep-seated needs, assumptions, beliefs, feelings, desires, etc.), the more we stay stuck in unproductive patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving that disable and limit us.   In psychodynamic (insight-oriented) therapy, therapists help people explore and understand their emotions, early-life experiences and beliefs to gain insight into their present-day problems, and to evaluate thinking/behavior patterns they have developed over time.   Recognizing recurring patterns helps people see the ways in which they avoid distress or develop defense mechanisms as a method of coping so they can take steps to change those patterns.

My Approach

I practice in an eclectic/holistic way using the most relevant concepts from these (and other) therapeutic approaches, based on each client's unique needs and goals.   

I also value, respect and work with the expertise people have about themselves and their life experiences. 

My therapeutic work is, above all else, rooted in my steadfast belief in the worth of all people, their right to self-determination and individuality. 



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